From the sounds of things, I really don't think it would've made any difference if you had known from the outset that he was in the vehicle. Even if you had known, it's unlikely you could've done anything to help, given how much effort it took for the officials to get him out. And if he was going that fast, I suspect he was dead on impact.
Still, that doesn't help you. I think the best thing you can do is to make a conscious effort to think of something else, something happier, whenever the incident comes into your mind - after a while you should then be able to stop thinking about it so much.
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From the sounds of things, I really don't think it would've made any difference if you had known from the outset that he was in the vehicle. Even if you had known, it's unlikely you could've done anything to help, given how much effort it took for the officials to get him out. And if he was going that fast, I suspect he was dead on impact.
Still, that doesn't help you. I think the best thing you can do is to make a conscious effort to think of something else, something happier, whenever the incident comes into your mind - after a while you should then be able to stop thinking about it so much.